Kaitlyn & Aaron

Every single family I photograph holds a special place in my heart. The fact that these people trust me to capture precious memories at special times in their lives makes me feel like a part of your family. But the families that I have photographed for this Infertility Awareness Project have just nestled well deep in my heart. Their strength and courage to be vulnerable with me and tell me their story has blown my mind.

Something I’ve found is that every single couple have mentioned in some form or another “It’s really lonely, and it feels like we’re the only people in the world going through this” and it simultaneously true and untrue. Infertility takes on so many different forms, as do treatments, there may not be anyone going through the EXACT thing that you are going through, but so many families and couples are going through the same loss and heartache and longing to complete their family as you are.

I photographed Kaitlyn and Aaron and their beautiful pupper Pippa, (and their camera shy cats!) at their home.

Kaitlyn was gracious enough to have a chat about what infertility has meant to them and the next steps for her and Aaron to complete their family.

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We love each other's company and our fur-babies, but no - we would still like to welcome a child into our family. At the moment, we are still trying for a pregnancy of our own through fertility treatment, however we both feel that there is a limit on how long we can do this, both financially and emotionally. So whilst we do hope we will be successful (and soon!!), we also are open to the idea of adoption or foster care further down the track if this didn’t work out. 

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We have been trying for a baby since getting married in March 2016. We weren’t in a huge rush at this time, but after a while we realised something might not be right. I was experiencing a range of symptoms throughout this time but didn’t think much of them until they really started to impact on my day to day life. I approached multiple doctors, and received mixed results and not a lot of answers. I felt really lost and started to wonder if it was all in my head. Finally, I realised constant pain and sickness wasn't okay and I wasn't just going to put up with it and pushed for further investigation. This was 2 years after first seeking help, and a week after that I had surgery to remove endometriosis, a persistent and reasonable sized cyst, and a few other things. This was in July 2018, and the surgeon said we would have increased fertility for about 6 months after this time, and that getting pregnant would help prevent endometriosis growing back as quickly too. 

We were really hopeful, and much to our surprise we were pregnant that very same cycle. I can't really express how excited we were by this, it really felt like everything was falling into place and made me feel like pushing myself out of my comfort zone to get further investigation was so worth it. Because it had been so long to get there, we were literally over the moon and told our close family straight away, and our close friends a bit later on. However, because we also had gone through so much to get to where we were, I was so worried something would go wrong (I’m sure I would have been worried either way, because that’s the type of person I am, but I felt like I was just waiting for something to not be right). We had a few scares at first with some spotting but then everything started to progress really well, we saw and heard his heart beat so many times, all at a healthy range, we saw him grow and change from a little blob into a little person with his little arms and legs. And as things started to progress, so did our hope and my nerves started to die down a little. Our doctor was apprehensive about things at first because of the initial scares, however, after we had so many great scans, saw and heard lots of strong heart beats etc - he said things were looking much better. 

However, a few weeks after we had publically announced we were expecting, we went in for a routine scan and found out his heart had stopped beating a few days before and we unfortunately had lost him. There were no signs of anything being wrong, and after so much growth and improvement this really took us by surprise. We had finally started to feel a bit more relaxed and were letting ourselves get more excited. We were starting to look forward to the fun things rather than being so worried. We felt like we had made it through the worry and uncertainty of the first trimester and were ready to relax in the second. I kind of feel a bit cheated that we got through what is supposed to be the riskiest stage, only to lose him after this when we thought there was less risk or reason to worry. We were excited to shortly be finding out the sex, and finally committing to a few of the bigger purchases. We’d had our eye on a pram, and planned which cot we both liked. However, this wasn’t to be. 

Whilst our journey in reality begun much before this, in some ways it feels like it only really begun after we lost Teddy because ever since we have been striving to get what we lost back. 

We know a new pregnancy will never replace Teddy, but we made a place in our heart and our homes for him. We still have the things we bought him, the plans for the nursery, the dreams and hopes. In some ways this is motivating, but in others it is terrifying because we might do all of these treatments and procedures, and then have the same thing happen. 

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At the moment we are trying to take it easy, and are doing a range of different treatments/medication protocols etc each cycle, and monitoring where we are at with things. We’re finding that for us, it is a fine line between wanting to do everything we can to make it happen, but not wanting this to take over our lives (although its hard for it not to), we are also conscious of trying to keep me as healthy and well as possible throughout the process. We have a plan where if each option doesn’t work, we will go onto the next, however we are seeing some really positive things happen and just taking each day/cycle as it comes.

We are also trying to make sure we do the right things for ourselves emotionally. Physically, I'd happily go through any amount of pain to try and achieve this, however I know that emotionally after our loss we are still fragile. For me at least, this is the first time I have experienced grief in a way that I can't make sense of, and I'm slowly learning that this isn't a linear process emotionally. There are a lot of ups and downs emotionally in an infertility journey as it is, and the emotional roller coaster is only further enhanced by the other emotional stuff in the background.

I'm a big champion for being pro-active with mental health, so trying to do what we can to look after ourselves in that department too. We both deal with things in a different way, and there are certainly times where things are harder than others. Teddy's due date was close to my birthday, and that was a really tough thing for us. We also find different times of the cycle come with different emotions, there's the hope and nerves that my body will or won’t do what it's supposed to in the follicular phase (the time when the body is preparing to ovulate) along with the medication, scans etc, and then there is always a lot of hope and for me, symptom spotting and more injections/medication in the dreaded Two Week Wait (the time between ovulation, and when you can take a pregnancy test). Sometimes at the end of that two week window, when we have just found out a cycle has not been successful, it’s really tough to be around friends who are pregnant, or see pregnancy/baby related things around, because it’s not only a reminder of what we are struggling to achieve, but also a reminder of what we lost and don’t have. Sometimes its hard to realise that had we not lost Teddy, there would be a new little person in our lives right now and things would look very different. So what is happening in our life right now really can depend on where we are at in this cycle and emotionally (as much as it sucks that my menstrual cycle has that much control over things!) at the moment in life we are taking each week as it comes, letting ourselves feel what we need to feel, being as pro-active as we can to make things happen, and looking after ourselves. 

Aside from fertility stuff, amongst everything that has happened we recently moved house, and Aaron has also gotten into stand-up comedy, and he is doing really well with it, so that gives him something else to focus on and gives us both a lot of joy! For me, I have recently started a new job after previously driving to and from Hobart every week for work, so outside of all the doctor’s appointments, medication, scans and procedures, I’m just enjoying having time back at home with the fur-babies and Aaron and enjoying getting stuff done around the house and relaxing.

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We would like to be parents - in whatever form that takes. Currently our goal is our own pregnancy, and whilst I am trying to manifest positivity, and say that these cycles WILL work, if they don’t, we will continue with this journey for a while. If that wasn’t successful, we would probably take a break before deciding if we want to try IVF again, or adopt, foster etc.

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I’m currently photographing families who have in the past, or are currently going through fertility treatments. click on the link below to learn more about the project and to have your family be a part of it

Rachael and Lucas

Rachel and Lucas are so wonderful, they were one of the first couples I spoke to when I started on this project, and just like the Griffins, I knew that they had experienced loss and miscarriages, but I had no idea of the extent.

I’m realising a have no idea about a lot of things when it comes to fertility treatments. I had no idea what a blighted ovum was (it’s a pregnancy where a sac and plecenta grow, but a baby does not.) I’ve been on a pretty steep learning curve, speaking with these families about cycles, and IVF, PCOS, IUI, OI… there’s so many different routes which can be taken, but the overwhelming common thread I have found within every single family I’ve spoken to has been the courage they all possess.

They get up and keep on keeping on, even when it’s tough, or they have bad news. This applies to Rachael and Lucas, after 3 miscarriages they still face each day with bravery.

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Is your Family Complete?

No... only fur children so far.

(but aren’t they gorgeous?!)

How did your journey begin?

I was diagnosed at age 11 with PCOS, Endometriosis and 1 ovary. I was told not to put hope even in IVF working.

In 2015 I fell pregnant but it turned out to be a blighted ovum.

In 2016 I fell pregnant again, but the heartbeat was to slow and weak and then stopped a week after seeing it.

After this Lucas and I got every test under the sun done to figure out why but everything came back within normal range. no answers.

In 2018 I had a chemical pregnancy, found out on my birthday and lost it over the mothers day weekend.

After this we saw a pattern and tried some new meds to help but have yet to fall pregnant again yet. 

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What is happening in your life right now?

We met with Tas Ivf at the end of May to get the ball rolling on IUI before going to IVF

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What is in the future for your family?

Hopefully IUI will work otherwise we will start doing IVF in Hobart.

Even if I fall pregnant and it sticks it's going to be a high risk pregnancy with high chances of a premature birth.

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I’m currently photographing families who have in the past, or are currently going through fertility treatments. click on the link below to learn more about the project and to have your family be a part of it

An Open Letter to All the Mamas

I know you’ve been thinking about having family portraits taken.

I know you’ve put it off time and time again - just until you lose those last pesky 5 kilos (until those 5kgs somehow become 10 to lose..)

I know you want your family portraits to be perfect - they’ll be hanging on your walls for the whole world to see after all.

I know that when you look at the photos I’ve taken, all you will see are the lumps and the bumps and the lines around your eyes (when did they even appear?)

I know, I know, I know - I’m guilty of being you too.

But can I tell you something?

You will never get this time back.

Your kids will never be this little again. (this applies to your 17 year old just as much as it does to your newborn)

That thing your two year old does that fills your heart with joy, you’ll never know when they’ll do that for the last time, you might not even realise when it happens.

Your 16 year old has a world of opportunities in front of them, it won’t be long before they move out of home, maybe across the country or even the world, and you’ll be missing a time when you would curse them for leaving their wet towel on the floor.

Can I ask you something?

The last time you looked at a photograph of your own mother, your own grandmother, did you think to yourself “gosh Mum looks fat in that photo” or “geez Nan looks old”? Or did you look at those photos and think about how amazing these women are. About how they shaped you into the bright, smart, funny, loving human that you are today?

Do you think your kids look at photos of you and think about those 5kgs, or do they think about how it feels when you scoop them up in the biggest tightest hug that only a mum can give?

In 20, 30, 40, even 50 years time, maybe after you’re gone, and all your kids have of you are these photos, do you think they’ll care about your wrinkles? or will they think about the lifetime of smiles.

Do you know what I see when I photograph you?

I see how much you love your kids, and how much your kids love you.

I see the connection between you and your partner, those sideways looks and those inside jokes.

I see the heart and soul of your family.

I don’t see the lumps, the bumps, the lines.

I see you. I see your family in all it’s beautiful glory.

And that’s what I photograph.

So please don’t wait.

Your kids won’t stop growing because you want to lose 5kgs.

Be here, in the now and photograph your beautiful family as it is.

Because I promise you, you’ll never regret it.

The Griffin Family

I was lucky enough to photograph Caitlin, Andrew, Sofia and Avery at Hollybank Forest. It was a place I’ve been wanting to photograph a family for awhile and when Caitlin came to me and suggested it for their family portraits I was so excited to head out there.

I’ve known the Griffins for a few years now, we met through mutual friends, and my Dad actually photographed Caitlin and Andrew before they were married. So I had known of their fertility struggles, but it wasn’t until I photographed their family that I learnt the full extent of what they went through.

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Is your Family Complete?

I’m super blessed to have 2 beautiful healthy daughters, Sofia who is almost 4 and Avery is 17 months old. 

Avery was the completing piece of our family! 

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How did your journey begin?

Almost 5 months into our marriage we experienced our first miscarriage - we hoped and prayed it would be the only one we would experience but unfortunately it wasn't. 

2 months later we fell pregnant again instead of excitement it was a time of fear and worry as the day we found out I had been experiencing excruciating pain for 3 days. The diagnosis was bleak, an ectopic pregnancy was not the news we wanted and I spent 2 long weeks in hospital awaiting surgery but on the day of surgery we recieved a miracle and our precious baby was right where she should be. What followed this miracle was 9 long months of Hyperemesis Gravidarum, countless hospital trips (in the end every second day I was in receiving  intravenous fluids and medication) 7 hours of induced labour and our first child Sofia Mae was here! 

We started trying for a second child 6 weeks after Sofia was born. 

6 months passed nothing. 

12 months passed nothing. 

13 months passed a miscarriage. 

14 months passed another miscarriage. 

16 months passed when I found out I was  3 weeks pregnant. I was terrified, I desperately didn't want to go through another loss but this much wanted baby was not to be and at 10 weeks I started bleeding, 3 days later a surgery was needed. 

It was devestating. 

We started fertility drugs a month later  when that failed after a few rounds we decided to have a break.

A month later and shortly before Sofia's second birthday we found out I was pregnant again and instead of fear or dread all I felt was sick, fast forward another horrendous 9 months of Hyperemesis Gravidarum and a 55 minute labour our sweet baby Avery was born. Perfect. Healthy. HERE.

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What is happening in your life right now?

Sofia is about to turn 4, she goes to early learning and is as sharp as a tack.

 Avery will be 2 at the end of the year, she has inherited her mother's attitude and definitely my craziness. 

Last year I experienced a massive health scare and I seriously mean MASSIVE. 

I am currently studying and Andrew is smashing goals at his workplace. 

What is in the future for your family?

Hopefully some pretty amazing doors to be opened!  (top secret) 

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For the month of May I’ll be photographing families who have in the past, or are currently going through fertility treatments. click on the link below to learn more about the project and to have your family be a part of it

Tegan & Daniel

Tegan and Daniel have been my best friends for almost 20 years now and I have photographed them and their 3 dogs numerous times over the past two decades, (including the cutest doggy calendar you’ll ever see)

They’re one of the reasons I wanted to start this project.

Each family I photographed I asked a series of questions. I wanted to find a way to raise awareness, to show those who may be silently struggling to conceive that you are not alone, and that this fight can be fought in so many different ways and to give a brief glimpse into each families journey of infertility, where it began and what is in store for their future.

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Is your family complete?

Not yet! Daniel and I want one beautiful child to make our family complete! We’ve always felt that we’re going to have a daughter so we tend to talk about her like it’s a sure thing. We’d be completed with a healthy happy baby of either gender though! I wanted to be a mum by 25 but with my 29th birthday nearing the goal has changed to be a mum before I’m 30!

How did your journey begin?

Our journey began a couple of months after we came home from our honeymoon. I was so sick and many doctors appointments and months later a laparoscopic surgery uncovered that I had become ill as coming off the contraceptive pill before the wedding with hopes to start our family quickly, had caused the Endometriosis I didn’t know was there to become active and spread. We kept trying to have a baby for a few years until my health had to come first and the decision was made to delay Daniels dream of being a stay at home dad. We started the process of trying to conceive again in early 2018.

what is happening in your life right now?

Right now I am just starting my second IVF cycle as we only had 1 embryo from cycle 1 that didn’t stick we need to start from the beginning in hopes for more embryos and the ability to complete frozen cycles in the future.

What’s in the future for your family?

We will continue to pray that IVF will help us grow our family and have plans to continue until we financially cannot any more. IVF has caused ongoing illness for me and my endometriosis so there may come a time when we need to decide health wise that I cannot continue any more but we’ll think about that when we need to.

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For the month of May I’ll be photographing families who have in the past, or are currently going through fertility treatments. click on the link below to learn more about the project and to have your family be a part of it

Photographs in your Home

It has long been acknowledged that family photos on display in a home help boost a childs sense of idenity and create a sense of belonging.

Each time they walk by a family photograph, which is countless times a day a message is sent

You my dear child, are important.

You matter

You have a special place in the world.

You are a part of this thing called family and we love you.

Family portraits are important. There is no doubt in my mind about this. But sometimes it’s not possible to hang a big family portrait in the living room.

Our family takes family portraits EVERY. SINGLE. YEAR. and we also take individual portraits of my sister and myself (we call them our Wall Photos) and every year the current photo goes up on the wall outside our old bedrooms.

It’s a way for us to claim this space as our own, even though neither of us have lived at home for 10 years and the bedrooms have since been repurposed.


I also understand that some people may not have the ability to hang images on their walls, whether its because you have a beautiful house with a million windows or you’re renting and aren’t allowed to put holes in the wall, there are still options for your family portraits, so don’t let that stop you from having your family photographed. The space you’re living may change, but you’ll never get the chance to capture your family as it is right now again.

I should also mention that we keep your images forever. So while wall art may not be an option for your home right now, in 2 years (or 5, or 10 years) it might be, and we’ll still have your images for you to choose from. - We recently pulled images out of the archive for a client Dad photographed 20 years ago, her husband had passed away and she wanted to make a book commemorating his life. Not only did we still have the images, we were able to find them (which I think is the real miracle!)


Wanna check out the different products that are available? (including wall art?) or maybe book an appointment to discuss a portrait session for your own family

Tips for including your Dogs in your Family Portraits

Oh man, Puppers are my FAVOURITE! You can usually find me sitting on the floor with a dog on my lap, no matter where I am.

My dog Zazu is a part of our family, he will forever be my first baby and even though he’s now destroyed 7 (SEVEN!!!) pairs of my shoes, I love him, and he’s a part of my family. So why would I have family portraits that didn’t include him?

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I love it when my clients include their dogs in their portrait shoot! and while it does create another level of chaos it can be fun and the images we create, I can almost guarantee they will be some of your favourites.

In saying that, there are some things you can do to ensure the whole “kids and animals” process doesn’t become a drama!

  • BRING TREATS - I can hear your dog agreeing to this dot point already

  • Don’t try to wear them out immediately before your session. - instead, taken them for a long walk or play a few hours before hand. Trying to run your dog right before your session will only excite your dog (who will think it’s time for playing) and make them extra slobbery!

  • Be Chill - Your dog can pick up on your body language and your negative emotions if you are stressed and anxious your dog will know which can make them stressed and anxious.

  • remember, you’re asking lots of different commands of your dog. Sit here. look at me, don’t come. These are probably commands you wouldn’t normally ask of your dog all at the same time. So be patient, remember they don’t understand what’s going on or why you’re asking them to do all these things.

  • Be Patient - I have nothing else I would rather be doing than hanging out with you and your dog. I won’t stop photographing until I KNOW I’ve nailed it.

  • Dogs are like toddlers, they need breaks too! Let them run and roam around and then when we come back to them they’ll be fresh and ready to go!

Hopefully this helps! Zazu is currently chewing on my shoelace (which is on my foot) because I promised him a trip to the dog park one I finished writing this!

My Favourite Locations for Family Photoshoots in Launceston

Whenever a client comes into the studio for a pre shoot consultation, one of the things we talk about is the location. It’s always something which often stumps people so i thought I would put together a list of my favourite locations for family photoshoots in Launceston!!

The Cataract Gorge

The Gorge is a family favourite of so many local families. I prefer to shoot on the Trevallyn side of the Gorge opposed to the West Launceston side as there are is a wider range of spots suitable for portraits. (even the car park has some magical backdrops for your family portraits!)

Launceston’s City Park

The City Park is a great Family friendly spot for kids big and small. The big trees are great to sit under, climb on, or in Autumn they drop enough leaves to make a giant pile to play in!

Hardwicke Street Reserve

This hidden gem is a great spot if you want to include your furry friends in your photoshoot. The dog park has a great bush feel to it, and there’s lots of opportunity for photographing in the late afternoon light (West Launceston always has the best afternoon sun!)

Arbour Park in West Launceston

I consider Arbour Park my outdoor studio! It’s just up the hill from the studio, is dog friendly, but not super well known, so your pupper isn’t so distracted by other people. and the views overlooking the city are just a bonus!

Your House!

Sometimes the best background to your photos is your own home. It’s easy, especially if you have little ones, it’s their happy place and where they feel most comfortable. Plus I love seeing all their favourite toys!

A quick list of places which I am so excited to photograph at in the coming few weeks

  • Hollybank Forrest

  • Tamar Island Wetlands

  • Punchbowl Reserve

  • Hoblers Bridge Reserve

  • Royal Park

  • Duck Reach Power Station

I’m sure there are a million other places in Launceston and it’s surrounding suburbs to take family portraits, so let me know your favourites! I’d love to add to the list! Plus if you’ve got a great idea and want me to photograph YOUR family there, then get in touch!

Emma, Levi & Eli

Look, these guys are my best friends, so maybe I’m biased when I say they’re my favourite family to photograph. But how can you not love a family when you get referred to as “Aunty Sammy”?? I will be surrogate aunty for any children I know!

We wanted to do a shoot at the Cataract Gorge in the autum leaves so we spent ALOT of time playing!

Barnett Family

I photographed Sam, Adam, Lachlan and Connor at the Cataract Gorge! so much fun, so many giggles!